Comments on: Eroticising From Thin Air

By: Eileen

Eileen — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 05:44:00 +0000

Anon-

Ohhhh, yes. Yes yes yes. That movie was basically about pretty submissive men with large noses. It made me extremely happy.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 03:11:00 +0000

Wow, I thought I was the only one with a collection of male submission video clips.

Heres something I thought I’d bring up

In the Count of Monte Christo, there is a scene when Dantes first arrives at the shateu d’if, and the warden takes off his shirt and whips him. The actor’s really hot too, and his facial expressions make my whole body tingle. There’s also other moments in the movie, like when the priest first shows up in his cell and he gets all freked out, or when he first finds out he’s being imprisoned… Great movie, the acting is phenominal. No female doms but definatly some hot male submissive behavior.

By: BJ

BJ — Fri, 22 Jun 2007 17:13:00 +0000

You probably won't like this one because it lacks psychodrama (it also lacks everything else) *but* at the start of Back to the Future you see Michael J Fox asleep with his hands behind his back. It looks a bit like he's tied up.

He isn't.

Yes! That is it. It is that lame. And I had a 2 year crush on Michael J Fox because of it.

By: maymay

maymay — Tue, 19 Jun 2007 19:08:00 +0000

There’s a lot to eroticisize in those scenes, that’s for sure, and I’m pretty sure a lot of people do it. I wish more people understood it, and I wish the ones who did weren’t as afraid of saying so as they sometimes are.

By: Eileen

Eileen — Mon, 18 Jun 2007 05:26:00 +0000

Richard –
I think I may have an advantage in eroticising films, modern culture and the like. From my experience there are far more instances of male sumbission (willing or unwilling) in films that there are instances of female domination. I wonder why that is? Most female doms in movies make me laugh. I look at them and think, “You just don’t *get* it.” If a man’s being punched in the face, he doesn’t need to get it. He’ll still flinch.

Elizabeth -
Working on my own porn in the form of drawings, currently. An excellent idea. And thanks!

By: Richard

Richard — Sun, 17 Jun 2007 21:17:00 +0000

When I was a kid the old sword and sandal (“Hercules” and the like) were where I absorbed some of my earliest sadomasochistic imagery. The heroes were always being tormented, sometimes even whipped by the evil woman.

I can’t do that with movies often anymore. I need to actually perceive female sadism before I can make the erotic connection.

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Thu, 14 Jun 2007 09:15:00 +0000

Hi Eileen -

I get it, I definitely get it. Ended up making a whole blog pretty much about *it*. :)

Essential problem - virtually no decent F/m porn, I mean erotica, anywhere, ever.

Fix? Make your own. It works out pretty well...sometimes you have to squint hard and turn your head sideways, but it works out.

Just started reading your blog. I appreciate your honest POV.

Thanks for writing, E