Comments on: Fuck Him

By: Maxim

Maxim — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 23:55:37 +0000

You should get a Feeldoe, my girlfriend fucks me with it, and she has an orgasm every time, not detached at all.

It’s like a double dildo, presses up against the woman’s g spot with every thrust.

By: Ranat

Ranat — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:14:21 +0000

This is one of a couple posts written in response to Jones’s strapon rant that I’ve stumbled on while thinking about writing my own, and it’s the one that resonates the most with me. You go into a lot better detail about the gender fluidity and non-binary gender discussion than I do, probably because I’m so firmly entrenched in gender-woman that I’ve only stepped into the more nebulous currents of the gender river in a theoretical way. For me wearing a strapon isn’t about being a man, it’s about being a woman with a strapon and all the fun and glory it can bring. It doesn’t make me less woman, and it doesn’t make him less man (fill in other gender as necessary).

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By: Victor

Victor — Fri, 07 Dec 2007 18:00:13 +0000

I have a near overwhelming compulsion to try and find this song and download it now. :-)

As far as feminist, that seems a fine label to take. (I sometimes take feminist as a label, but since it sometimes turns into an argument about who is a “real” feminist, I will happily abandon the label as long as I still get to subscribe to the beliefs, do what I want to do in the way I want to do it, etc.)

By: Eileen

Eileen — Fri, 07 Dec 2007 05:11:47 +0000

Victor-

Yes, this is just what I need! A cheesy theme song! Why didn’t I think of this before?

Also, since I wrote this I have re-thought the feminist label. I’d now call myself a very wary, very under-educated feminist. We’ll see how this develops.

By: Victor

Victor — Fri, 07 Dec 2007 04:31:42 +0000

I came hunting for posts on you as a reaction top (since “reaction junkie” is often the way I describe my sexual identity – although I’ve grown uneasy with the hyperbolic nature of the word “junkie”) and I found this.

Love it as a post, I agree you need to read some more women’s studies because you ARE a feminist. *grin*

It reminds me I will have to add a post about being penetrated to the list of subjects I want to cover.

Finally, this made me laugh out loud: “It’s not what you do, it’s how you do it.”

I laughed because it is the theme song of the cheezy Cannonball Run movies.
(here is the chorus)

It’s not what you do
It’s how you do it.
Be anything you want to be
It’s not what you got
It’s how you use it
You be you
And I’ll be me
It’s just a matter of style
You can fake it
Mile after mile
Feeling free
If you got the soul
you can make it
Move-em out (move ‘em out)
Let ‘em roll (let ‘em roll)
From sea to shining sea
Ball (ball)
Cannonball (cannonball)

By: Eileen

Eileen — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 20:39:00 +0000

Alexis -

::laughs:: Such a simple ending! Thanks for the conversation. I quite enjoyed it.

By: Alexis

Alexis — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 19:54:00 +0000

I accept that.