Comments on: 16. Finding the Balance http://bloodylaughter.com/2008/12/30/16-finding-the-balance/ Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:04:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Noel http://bloodylaughter.com/2008/12/30/16-finding-the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-2598 Noel Tue, 30 Dec 2008 04:10:06 +0000 http://bloodylaughter.com/?p=347#comment-2598 Totaltotaltotal agreement here. Jack and I aren't perfect. Not nearly. Not even perfect for each other. Hells, sometimes I think we're the worst-suited couple in the UNIVERSE. BUT (and there's ALWAYS a but) we talk constantly. More than any 3 "normal" couples. I randomly check in with him: Hey, love, everything okay in your head? I check in after either of us plays, he asks me what's up in my head if I'm quiet for a while (a rarity!). And the key takeaway, as MayMay put it? We talk about how the situation is bothering us (when it is), and how to fix it- NOT what the other did wrong. Totaltotaltotal agreement here.
Jack and I aren’t perfect. Not nearly.
Not even perfect for each other.
Hells, sometimes I think we’re the worst-suited couple in the UNIVERSE.
BUT (and there’s ALWAYS a but) we talk constantly. More than any 3 “normal” couples. I randomly check in with him: Hey, love, everything okay in your head? I check in after either of us plays, he asks me what’s up in my head if I’m quiet for a while (a rarity!).
And the key takeaway, as MayMay put it? We talk about how the situation is bothering us (when it is), and how to fix it- NOT what the other did wrong.

]]> By: barry http://bloodylaughter.com/2008/12/30/16-finding-the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-2597 barry Tue, 30 Dec 2008 03:32:38 +0000 http://bloodylaughter.com/?p=347#comment-2597 @maymaym agreed. that is key. @maymaym agreed. that is key.

]]> By: maymay http://bloodylaughter.com/2008/12/30/16-finding-the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-2595 maymay Tue, 30 Dec 2008 03:16:12 +0000 http://bloodylaughter.com/?p=347#comment-2595 Key takeaway: <blockquote>we’re still talking, every single day.</blockquote> Key takeaway:

we’re still talking, every single day.

]]> By: Gebadia Smith http://bloodylaughter.com/2008/12/30/16-finding-the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-2594 Gebadia Smith Tue, 30 Dec 2008 03:15:19 +0000 http://bloodylaughter.com/?p=347#comment-2594 You are like the wind today with your words...or maybe seasons..and I find myself feeling saddened by your words..like love and passion must always fade. We are destined to become like an old sneaker to those we love... and yes I am reading too much into your post and these are my fears manifested from your words...did I pull manifested off? You are like the wind today with your words…or maybe seasons..and I find myself feeling saddened by your words..like love and passion must always fade. We are destined to become like an old sneaker to those we love… and yes I am reading too much into your post and these are my fears manifested from your words…did I pull manifested off?

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